Sunday, January 31, 2010

A first-timer's experience

Pune is a visitor’s nightmare.

Right from when you set foot in the city, either at the airport or at the railway station, there are auto-wallahs waiting to rip you off. (Unless, of course, you happen to know the Marathi language, in which case they always charge you the actual rates.) For anyone who is planning to visit Pune and is unfamiliar with the sights and sounds of the city, please note that the auto rickshaws here mainly serve the purpose of taxis. Accordingly, you have to ‘reserve’ an auto rickshaw for your journey and cannot split the expenses with fellow-travelers headed the same way (as is the case here in Kolkata). Further, each auto rickshaw has a meter installed on the iron grid that separates the passenger seat and the driver’s, and it surprisingly records not the amount traveled but the kilometers traveled. How to figure out what actually needs to be paid, you wonder? Well, each auto-wallah has a fare chart – he is required by law to have one – wherein the kilometers vis-à-vis the cost incurred are mentioned quite clearly. Of course, the said auto-wallah may offer incredulous excuses of how he tragically lost the fare-chart or simply refuse to show it to you, in which case you just need to multiply the reading on the meter by 8 and then add 2. For example, if at the end of your journey you find the meter reading to be 6, then (6x8) + 2 = 50 Rupees is what you need to pay. It’s the same anywhere in the city.

Now, in case you’re wondering how it is that an auto-wallah may refuse to show you his fare chart and get away with it, the raison d’être is that you won’t find any policeman to report him to! In fact, you’ll be hard-pressed to find policemen anywhere in the city! Wonder what they’re up to!

Also, in the city of Pune, the concept of privately-owned buses is nonexistent. All buses that ferry people from place to place are painted yellow-and-red and are all run by the city government. The buses are thus quite crowded and difficult to travel in, and the auto-wallahs are left reeling in the cash.

Cutting to the chase, unless you own a car of some sort, or at least a two-wheeler, traveling around the city is a downright pain-in-the-ass. Not to mention really expensive. But one thing I really liked was that the number of women – young and middle-aged – that I spotted piloting two-wheelers in my three-day stay in Pune was far more than the number I’ve spotted in all my years in Kolkata put together.

For regular and frequent smokers like me, there is the added disadvantage that shops selling cigarettes are not really a dime a dozen. Far from it, actually. And for Kolkattans in general, or at least those of us who love street-side food, the sad fact is that there aren’t any small shacks selling finger-lickin’ food (at affordable prices) lining the Pune roads; what can be found instead are large restaurants and other such eateries that do serve good food but cost way too much.

‘To sum it up’, as I said in the Group Discussion where I barely spoke, the city of Pune isn’t really a dream destination by any stretch of the imagination. I had to visit because I had work to attend to. I wouldn’t advise anyone else to drop in unless he/she absolutely has to. I’m back home now and I really don’t want to go back there.

(Or, maybe I will. If I manage to gain admission into a particular institute situated
atop a hill. If I do gain admission there, perhaps the pleasurable company of a particular member of the opposite sex will outweigh the displeasure of living in Pune in the first place.)

p.s. For people who do not know who it is that I talk about above, please keep your noses (and your guess-work) out of my personal business. I am a rather insignificant person, and surely you have better things to do. Thank you.

She made a memory..

I met a girl on the train from Pune to Kolkata. Wearing a simple red sari and a black blouse, she was selling guavas from a wicker basket and had sat down on the edge of the seat adjacent to mine for a moment’s rest. We got to talking after I bought the last two of her guavas. She said she was from Chhattisgarh. She also said that she bought her fruits at six in the morning and caught the eight o’ clock train, before which she cooked food for her elder brother (who worked in the fields as a landless labourer) and her mother (who was often ill, but could not get treated because of the lack of funds). Mansi, as this girl was called, often didn’t get time to have breakfast and ate a meagre lunch at mid-day (consisting of dry rotis and a nondescript curry) when she got down at a station to change trains. Mansi sold different fruits depending on the season and she said that cucumbers were the most profitable during the parched summer months. She sometimes got pulled up by the TTEs for traveling ticket-less and in such situations, she was forced to part with all her earnings just in order to avoid being disallowed from continuing her trade. When she finished her daily routine at seven in the evening, she went home and prepared food for all three family members. (Her father didn’t live with them anymore.)

Mansi is just 19. She had studied till class ten in a Hindi-medium school, after which her father went his separate way and she was compelled to start working. She has no holidays, she watches no movies, she has no time to socialize with friends. She has already had malaria and typhoid, and yet her indomitable spirit has lived on to tell her tale. When I asked her what it was that kept her going day-in and day-out despite such odds, she said that it was the thought of going back home and having at least one home-made meal every day.

Mansi’s sun-burnt face had a simple, rustic charm and a withdrawn beauty and I sincerely hope that poverty doesn’t force my newfound friend into deeds beneath her dignity, as happens to so many such poor village girls. I tried to give her a hundred rupee note, but only after I concocted a story about Friendship Day being a few days away (and that the money was a gift from one friend to another), did she reluctantly accept it. I also wanted to click a picture of her but she was too shy to let me.

When she got off the train at Raipur, Mansi bid me a safe journey, saying that I was a very nice person and that it felt nice to be able to share her story. I wished her all the very best in life and hoped that we would meet again someday, only she would be far better off and not be hawking fruits on a train then.

p.s. All the conversation took place in Hindi, and I think I’ve got everything more or less right. And Mansi, if you (or anyone else who knows you) ever read(s) this composition of words, you should know that I really, really wish you the happiest of lives…

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Got 95.33 percentile overall in XAT. Didn't merit a call from XLRI. Don't think will do so from XIMB either. So, XAT's prospects are pretty much over.
Perhaps all shops that stock women's inner wear should employ saleswomen to assist their clientele. I was at this shop yesterday, hunting for a pair of formal trousers, when this woman walked in. The battle going on inside her was evident from her secretive glances at the ladies items' counter and the man seated behind it. It took her quite a lot of time to come up with the item that she was looking for, and I could see the hesitation (and perhaps unwillingness) with which she gave the man her sizes. Unfortunately, this shop that I'm talking about didn't encompass a lot of floor-space and I could hear every word that passed between the poor woman and the salesman from where I had been standing (at the gents' counter, browsing through five-odd pairs of trousers, trying to pick one). I didn't really want to hear the rest of the woman's pained conversation until the transaction was completed, and I therefore left, but I must say I did notice the expression on her face. Pity was the emotion that I felt for her, and I sincerely hope that she doesn't have to go through such an experience ever again.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

22.. And counting...


Had a wonderful day. And I mean, really wonderful. A big "thank you" to everyone who made the 12th of January, 2010, such a memorable day. This blog post is dedicated to all you people.. Anchal, for being the first to wish me on the phone.. Polo, Deepsova, Debashree (my sincerest apologies if I've got the spellings wrong), Malvika, Rini, Sudeshna and Aritree for throwing caution to the winds and wasting precious money by calling me up at STD rates! Rachna di, for the really unexpected SMS (I hadn't expected you to remember).. Anchal and Jhhata, for one of the most delicious cakes I've ever had a slice of.. Dipendra and Nilanjana, for the two wonderful cards (and NOT for the other gift!!).. Sumit and Ritankar, for the sexy wallet.. (Black is such an alluring colour!) Mayank, for the very stylish t-shirt, even though I generally would rather wear something less flashy.. And, to another person, for making the end of my birthday a really memorable one.. Thank you all. Thank you so much...